Moodz, before we go into a solution we have to look at the causes of the problem. Sex is such a taboo topic in
Although generalization is always discouraged, I think ALL true believers in Islam think that sex does more harm than good. They think that sexuality is akin to (the great evil that we must try to live with but completely block from the collective conscious of our societies). They seem ignorant to the fact that sexuality is a natural need just like any need we may experience such as hunger, thirst, or whatever. It is not only part of the human psyche but part of life. In fact, it may be the greatest need of all for what is greater than the need of reproduction and the survival of the human race?
The problem is that people who are susceptible to religious influence tend to take word of the mouth for granted. They never question motives, causes, or reasons. They never ask for answers and indeed they never make any questions in the first place. All that does not concern them as long as they are living in the mental comfort of a better life after death. What they don't realize is that the way they are dealing with the sex issue is causing their societies more harm than good (if any good at all). Take homosexuality as a good example. People don't realize this because it's been a long time since they've been in a situation in which they faced homosexuality. It wasn't long ago since I graduated from secondary school and during my time at a boys only secondary school we had students who were obviously in pain due to their overly active sexual desires. There was no other way to vent. Their only solution was to turn to peers who had the same overly active sexual desires to mutually gratify themselves. They realize that homosexually is a way out of the oppression of their society and so they continue the act until it becomes part of their life and now they are fully and not only casually homosexual. They never contribute to the offspring of the society, they become unconsciously angry at their society but they won't admit it. Another good example is the Saudi "punter" issue we see in
It is, indeed, true what you said that in Islam marriage is currently is the only pseudo-solution to the issue at hand. Unfortunately, most of the people getting married today in
Do you want to solve the issue Moodz? The solution is simple. Alienate the interference of religion on YOUR life and seek social support (if you need it) by making friends with those who share your point of view. Let the others live their lives in pain and torment caused by their ignorance and sick masochistic tendencies. Just don't allow them to spread that pain and destruction on to you.